Our philosophy

每遇一人,助其智慧。

每到一地,筑其美好!©

Everyone we meet, we help them search for a better life;

Everywhere we go, we help make it a better world! ©

——– By Dr Patrick Li. Copy right 1986 – 2019

 

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教育本身分很多种类。我们提倡的教育,是融合了几方面的科学而形成的情商教育。
我们坚信,而且实践也证明了一个真理:时间上唯有两件事情是不可以强迫的,一是成就,二是幸福。
到现在,我们也没有遇见过被迫的幸福。
所以,我们学校提供的教育的真谛,是唤醒孩子们的内心,打开孩子的自我动力,让孩子自动自觉的成为人才:上做人物,下做事情,承担责任,从我做起,现在行动。
“4能4敢”的情商是决定一个人幸福和成功最重要的素质:
*)能想敢想: 有独立判断、构思的思维能力, 加上自我突破的勇气;
*)能干敢干: 有执行、承担的做事能力, 加上理性冒险的动力;
*)能说敢说: 有条理清晰、亲和鼓舞的沟通能力, 加上挑战现状的意愿;
*)能听敢听: 有聆听、理解的能力, 加上接受异见的胸怀。

 

 

What our students and parents say about us  学生和家长对我们的评价

Xiaoping School’s EQ Program is really fun and effective – Student A.L. (12 Year Old) (29/12/2015)

I would recommend you to send your son to the holiday EQ program. Patrick will be there to help your son to get rid of the messy habits. The 5… Read more “Xiaoping School’s EQ Program is really fun and effective – Student A.L. (12 Year Old) (29/12/2015)”

谁是“千里马”,谁是”伯乐“ – From parent T with one primary school child (20/12/2015)

感谢启明组织昨晚那个”战高温”晚会,感谢Patrick昨晚的分享。晚会结束后,一些想法触动到我,想在这里跟大家说说。 昨晚我才知道参加晚会的家长好像跟启明都是一两面之缘或是朋友介绍的,对XiaoPing School更是知之甚少。大家愿意冒着40度的高温来参加一个互相不太熟悉的聚会,我总觉得大家也许是受“心连心”这个想法的感染,心里带着一点期待过来的吧。 Patrick昨晚的分享已经用他的理念和风趣大概介绍了XiaoPing School。而我也想从一个家长的视角分享一下自己所看到的XiaoPing School。 我今年5月才认识Patrick和他的学校,和12岁的儿子一起跟Patrick学习了半年,感觉XiaoPing School跟现代东西方教育越来越重视的理念是一致的: 发掘孩子身上的无限潜能。我相信每个刚出生的孩子在父母眼中都是最美丽最可爱的,也就是说,我们的潜意识从一开始就知道每个孩子都是优秀且独一无二的。所以XiaoPing School的第一个教育目标就是教授父母如何从一开始就用正确的方法帮助孩子描绘自己的人生蓝图,成为一匹独特的”千里马”。 但事实上,如果没有”伯乐”,”千里马”也不过是云云众生中一匹普通的马。那谁是伯乐?是老师,朋友,还是某位偶遇的大师?在我看来,都不是,而是与孩子相伴成长的父母。如果作为陪伴时间最长的父母都不能发掘其千里之长,企盼别人不是更难靠谱么?为此,XiaoPing School比其它教育机构多了一个更接地气,根源性的视角: 教育父母。我们父母大多都接受过国内的传统文化教育,本身就在不太正确的教育机制和方式下成长起来的,自身已有被描坏的部分,所以很多时候即使知道正确的培养孩子的方法也未必能真正实施或用好。因此,XiaoPing School第二个,也是最重要的目标就是: 帮助已成长的父母改善自己被涂坏的部分,培养父母成为伯乐,与孩子共同成长,并改善自己未来的人生。 如果每个家庭都将”专注培养孩子”的视角转向”与孩子共同成长”,其成效将不仅仅体现在孩子身上,还体现在整个家庭,整个社会。这些都是我在XiaoPing School半年来学习成长过程中所理解到的。XiaoPing School基本不做广告,但Patrick的言传身教,所有参与学习的家长和孩子所得到的成长都是我所看到的最活生生、最具说服力的广告。 以上个人的感受和收获仅供参考。Merry Christmas & Happy New year

The Results Speak for Themselves – Parent Kelly – 18/12/2015

To everyone, something to share about my EQ learning too. I have been learning EQ for 4 years and I am happier since then as I realise a lot of… Read more “The Results Speak for Themselves – Parent Kelly – 18/12/2015”

What does it mean to be happy? – Parent A.T. with 2 primary school aged children – 18/12/2015

Ask many people what they want in life and most of them would reply to be happy. Ask them what it means to be happy, or why they want to… Read more “What does it mean to be happy? – Parent A.T. with 2 primary school aged children – 18/12/2015”

It’s all worked out now

“Dear Patrick, My studies have been tight and I’ve struggled a bit recently, but I think it’s all worked out now and I’m doing my best to stay on top.… Read more “It’s all worked out now”

Mother’s joy

“Oh my god! You know what, Patrick! Today [child’s name protected] himself tidied up and cleaned his bedroom without any reminding! He changed his bed, tidied up the desk, and… Read more “Mother’s joy”

Getting first school award

“Hi Patrick I’m so glad, pleased and exciting today. This morning 7am when I drove him to school’s band training, I said to [child’s name protected] , ‘I’m happy about… Read more “Getting first school award”

Only 3 days in EQ program

Thank you so much for helping and teaching [child’s name protected]. Only 3 days in your program there is such an unbelievable change in him! He has changed to full… Read more “Only 3 days in EQ program”

Fighter or negotiator

“Dear Patrick You are so right! ‘it is OK to confront people, but the confrontation is part of a negotiation, not part of a fight.’ Indeed, I am a fighter… Read more “Fighter or negotiator”

Becoming an independent boy

I’m very happy to let you know that [child’s name protected] making huge progress every day. This morning he got up early after reading in bed, then cooked breakfast for… Read more “Becoming an independent boy”